The first day of school our professor introduced himself and
challenged us to get to know someone we didn't already know. I stood up to
look around when a gentle hand touched my shoulder.
I turned round
to find a wrinkled, little old lady beaming up at me with a smile that lit
up her entire being.
She said,
"Hi handsome. My name is Rose.
I'm eighty-seven
years old. Can I give you a hug?"
I laughed and
enthusiastically responded, "Of course you may!" and she gave me
a giant squeeze.
"Why are
you in college at such a young, innocent age?" I asked.
She jokingly
replied, "I'm here to meet a rich husband, get married, and have a
couple of kids..."
"No
seriously," I asked. I was curious what may have motivated her to be
taking on this challenge at her age.
"I always
dreamed of having a college education and now I'm getting one!" she
told me.
After class we
walked to the student union building and shared a chocolate milkshake.
We became
instant friends. Every day for the next three months we would leave class
together and talk nonstop. I was always mesmerized listening to this
"time machine" as she shared her wisdom and experience with me.
Over the course
of the year, Rose became a campus icon and she easily made friends wherever
she went.
She loved to
dress up and she reveled in the attention bestowed upon her from the other
students. She was living it up.
At the end of
the semester we invited Rose to speak at our football banquet.
I'll never
forget what she taught us. She was introduced and stepped up to the podium.
As she began to deliver her prepared speech, she dropped her three by five
cards on the floor.
Frustrated and a
little embarrassed she leaned into the microphone and simply said,
"I'm sorry I'm so jittery. I gave up beer for Lent and this
whiskey is
killing me! I'll never get my speech back in order so let me just tell you
what I know."
As we laughed
she cleared her throat and began, "We do not stop playing because we
are old; we grow old because we stop playing
There are only
four secrets to staying young, being happy, and achieving success You have
to laugh and find humor every day. You've got to have a dream When you lose
your dreams, you die.
There is a huge
difference between growing older and growing up.
If you are
nineteen years old and lie in bed for one full year and don't do one
productive thing, you will turn twenty years old. If I am eighty-seven
years old and stay in bed for a year and never do anything I will turn
eighty-eight.
Anybody can grow
older. That doesn't take any talent or ability. The idea is to grow up by
always finding opportunity in change. Have no regrets.
The elderly
usually don't have regrets for what we did, but rather for things we did
not do. The only people who fear death are those with
She concluded
her speech by courageously singing "The Rose."
She challenged
each of us to study the lyrics and live them out in our daily lives.
At the year's
end Rose finished the college degree she had begun all those years ago.
One week after
graduation Rose died peacefully in her sleep.
Over two thousand
college students attended her funeral in tribute to the wonderful woman who
taught by example that it's never too late to be all you can possibly be
When you finish
reading this, please send this peaceful word of advice to your friends and
family, they'll really enjoy it!
These words have
been passed along in loving memory of ROSE.
REMEMBER,
GROWING OLDER IS MANDATORY. GROWING UP IS OPTIONAL.
We make a Living
by what we get, We make a Life by what we give.
God promises a
safe landing, not a calm passage. If God brings you to it, He will bring
you through it.
Pass this
message to 7 people except you and me. You will receive a miracle tomorrow < /FONT>
If you choose
not, then you refuse to bless someone else.
"Good
friends are like stars.........You don't always see them, but you know they
are always THERE.
|
|

|
"Connie" <cdmd@...>
backupgroups93
Offline Send Email
|